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should i tell her i love her?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by anonomous, Dec 26, 2013.

  1. anonomous

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    should i tell my female friend that i love her?.and how? she knows im bi and im seeing her in 2 days. shes straight though and i dont want to make things awkward.
     
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    I don't think you should. If she straight, it makes no difference. She will not be your gf. I know it sucks; I'm sorry.
     
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    Like Femme said, I'm not sure if you should. If she's straight it might make things awkward between you two. However, she might take it well, you never know.

    It's your decision in the end, if you think she needs to know or you can't keep it secret, tell her. If not and it might ruin your friendship, then maybe it's not the best idea.

    I hope whatever you decide to do goes well, and enjoy seeing her.
     
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    Unless you can't keep it in any longer, don't tell her. She's not going to magically become bi, especially if she knows you are. She would've told you. So, keep it a secret and try to make I go away.
     
  5. i wouldnt because she isnt into girls, i think it would make it awkward
     
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    I don't think you should especially if you know she is straight
     
  7. If she's straight, that would probably totally ruin your friendship. Sorry.
     
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    ok, thnx guys. i probs wont tell her then. she will probably find out for herself anyways. one of my other friends said that she asked her "why does --- like me so much" so i guess thats it. thnx :slight_smile: