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Coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Cody lover, Jan 1, 2014.

  1. Cody lover

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    I'm bisexual and still in the closet completely. I want to tell somebody but don't know who. My sister is very understanding and has gay and bi friends so should I tell her I just don't know what to do.
     
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    I'd say go for it! Find a time when you both can be alone and just let it out. I'm sure she'll be accepting and help you move forward to coming out fully.
     
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    Well, I'd say that she would be the best one to start with. The first person I ever came out to was my aunt who'd recently come out, divorced her husband, and up and left for Florida with her new female partner. I figured she'd understand the best.
     
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    Your sister sounds like a good choice. Will she keep it secret from your parents? You should be able to tell them when you are ready.
     
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    Thanks and I believe she would keep it a secret. And because it was Christmas time my sister shopped a lot and I always went because I love shopping. And I know she will be shopping soon and if not she has a house so I can go over and find a time when we are alone.
     
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    Hi there! Echoing what others have suggested as well. From what you have mentioned, and given that you feel she would keep it to herself until you are ready for others to know as well, it sounds like that your sister would be a good person to come out to.

    Deep breath; it is going to be fine. (*hug*)
     
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    Ok and thank you. I will hopefully be able to come out to my sister the next time we are alone and if it happens I will post about my experience.
     
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    Good luck I'm sure it will go well x
     
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    And also I want to start cross dressing so if it was a day we were shopping do you think that might be a time to look at clothes. I only want to start slow and low. Like cute girly socks and cute girly pantys and thongs. So should I do it. Thanks for the help.