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Coming out weirdly

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by gaywill13, Jan 6, 2014.

  1. gaywill13

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    Basically I'm coming out to my parents in the summer but in a very strange way. I've written an opera and it's going to be performed on July. It's about a guy coming to his Christian parents in a nutshell. I'm playing the boy by the qay. Anyway, after this I leave them a letter and I go stay at a mates house for a few nights, until they call or text me (which won't be for a few days) this is so the original shock dies down before the think about it.
    Good plan?
     
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    Well it's certainly original! I like it :grin:
     
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    A bit over the top,you can just tell them normally... much less work,but if you want it fabulous its your choice.
     
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    Well I think it's just SUPER ^^

    Heh, maybe a lot of work, but still creative, so, props for that
     
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    Wow, that sounds really cool actually xD good luck man!
     
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    Yes, perhaps way over the top man. Which is why I fucking love it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Totally Fabulous!
     
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    Seems awesome :grin:
     
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    Cool idea!!
     
  10. That's the coolest coming out idea I've ever heard of, actually.
    I hope you parents enjoy the opera and learn something from it that they can use after reading your letter. Just be sure to make clear to them that you'll be alright and that you haven't run away from home, just so they don't have to worry about your safety, okay?
     
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    I think you're on to something here! Emotional, creative and expressive! And the best part is they sit there, watch and listen to the narrative that is their and your reality, Perfect!
    Good Luck!
     
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    That sounds so cool, if youre gonna come out of the closet you may as well blow the closet to peices :slight_smile: i love it!
     
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    You might want to make the arrangements for staying at the friend's house ahead of time so their is no worry. Whatever you do, be safe. BTW you sound very creative and talented to have written an opera that you will star in.
     
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    Its a really imaginative idea !! Well done..

    will they "get it" though.. ? Will they just say "nice opera, dear" !!! :eusa_doh:
     
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    holy crap...

    that is friggin AWESOME

    you're my hero of the hour

    Foxface