Girls used to make me really horny from when I was 13. I would fantasize about hot women when masturbating, and in public i would get erections when looking at hot girls. But, at 15 at the beginning of freshmen year, someone made a raaaaandom rumor that I was gay. I was reallly pissed off cause i knew i was not gay and It had never even crossed my mind. Then all i did was try to prove to ppl that i wasnt gay. It went on and on and now, I'm not so much out to prove to others that I'm not gay, Im now trying to prove to myself that I'm not gay. I still masturbate to hot girls, and I'm not turned on as much anymore by women, but I'm still turned on. I dont jack off to guys cause i dont really find it satisfying, but still my mind goes through the question, am I gay every minute of the day. Here I am now wandering what you all think. PPPPLLLEase respond cause I ve had a tough time with this. and also. I use to look at women porn a tooooon. After doing that soo much and masturbating to that.... women started to be less and less sexually amusing, but like i said girls are still sexually amusing to me just not as much as earlier.
Well if you're turned on by women and not by men, you're not gay lol it surprises me how people dont realize its that easy. Anyway, you're just confused. This question goes through every guys mind, gay or straight, the whole "what if" scenario. This rumor has clearly caused you alot of anguish and its pretty much just driving you crazy. To me, all it seems to be is that your letting this rumor get to you, like its making you question yourself, which you should never let anyone do. You're turned on by hot girls and not by hot guys, you are not gay. Dont let anything anyone ever says get to you, cuz even if their stupidity slowly starts to seep into your brain, its not the truth. So you can calm down dude, lol i think you'll be alright
I hope you're find girls sexually arousing, not sexually amusing. Look, you don't jack off to guys because you don't find it satisfying. You fantasize about women, and you DO find that satisfying. The ONLY thing that even hints at anything gay in your life is some rumor started when you were a freshman. So I ask - why is this even preying on your mind still? Why are you still "not sure"? What makes you question this? Because you're finding women less arousing? Well, if you've overloaded on straight porn, then yeah, that'll happen. Lay off for awhile, maybe give yourself some more time between solo sessions, and I'm sure you'll see it return. (No matter how much you love Twinkies, eat three a day, and suddenly you'll lose your appetite for 'em.) Is there anything else that makes you question your sexuality? Because nothing in your post even mildly suggests that you might be gay, or even bisexual. Lex
well i tried to go to gay porn and i wasnt really that turned on, I had never seen it before and It was weird but i was kind of turned on.
i just think its weird that I question myself this every day. And today, like i said in the post before this one, i went to gay porn and was kind of turned on, but i had never seen gay porn before In my life.
Maybe your Bi? The same thing happened to me in middle school, I think it's funny because people are so f**king stupid and will believe everything they hear in school.
Well maybe you werent turned on by the guys having sex, but the act of the sex itself, that is a big turn on xD
Sure. I can get turned on by straight porn, or even lesbian porn. Partially because there's sex going on, and partially because it's new and different for me. I don't think it makes me straight. Lex
I wouldn't worry about it. Everybody goes through that period at some point, and even after I figured out I was bi, I still went through it again, wondering if I was straight after all. You know who you are. But hey, even if you're not gay, stick around here. We've got some straight people and it's a really neat place in general. And welcome to EC! (*hug*)
