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I came out to my coworker today

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by stocking, Jan 16, 2014.

  1. stocking

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    Not the one i had a crush on but her cousin I found out that her cousin is bi and I told her that i was lesbian she told me that when ever i need someone to talk to I can talk to her anytime . It felt nice to come out . My coworker said that she was shocked that I was a lesbian and didn't get that vibe from me .
     
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    Average gaydar judgment accuracy is only in the 60 percent range. This demonstrates gaydar ability, far from judgment proficiency. "The Science of ‘Gaydar’ By JOSHUA A. TABAK and VIVIAN ZAYAS".

    The best way to give the lesbian vibe in the end is to be open to all the world. When you are open to the world and tell your orientation to everyone you meet you have to deal with discrimination , but you also have many good pros. Like that the semi-closeted girls that want to have a lesbian relation and know you are around will naturally flow towards you.
     
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    Well done stocking!
     
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    That's awesome, I'm glad you found someone to talk to at work. Congrats, Stocking!
     
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    Congratulations! I wish I had your courage to come out properly!
     
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    Thank you everyone . It was very hard to tell her but she told me that she will not judge me and she is bi and understands how I feel . She use to flirt with me at work before i came out as lesbian but it was in a joking way so I never took it seriously
     
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    Woohoo! You go brave girl :slight_smile: Congrats.. It would have helped knowing that she is bi :eusa_clap:slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! :thumbsup: Glad that everything worked out.