isn't it the crappiest feeling realizing you're being used

Sometimes we can't see that which we don't want to be true

You're right, another lesson of life and now you're stronger and wiser for it.

 

uhm, seems like I had to same issue happen to me a couple of times. Your not an idiot, it happens to most people. I guess its just life

 

Yeah, don't put yourself down. Trusting people are the best type and we are too rare in this god-forsaken world. It's always better to look on people optimistically. Also, when you're infatuated with someone, it's easy not to notice their dark side. Everyone falls for the wrong people sometimes. Don't beat yourself up. Just, as you say, chalk it up to experience and be alert to jack-asses next time. (*hug*)

 

haha well, its all normal.. Like I said above.. It happens all the time sadly. I hope your okay right . Soon it will fade away. Just give it time.

-Luis

 

pooh:rolleyes: boy crushes....

we can't help who we infatuate ourselves with but we can control who we choose as friends. Sometimes, things arn't always what they seem and sometimes people over react in the straingest ways when they notice or observe something. But what if u observed wrong.

I mean, he might have been using you yeah but maybe he isn't and u are just being pissed at someone for not acknowledging your licking for them...attention maybe...
I mean, maybe he dosn't like u the way u like him but how are u sure he dosn't like u any at all. Have u confronted this crush about how u feel used?

to be perfectly honest, people who don't like people don't stick around them for months....weeks maybe but not months. And put yourself in his position...how do u think this looks from his prospective?(*hug*)

poor thing...

anyways, look into it. I might not be making sence but making sence.

-Alex.

 

Eh. This happened to me sort of. I had a crush on this girl from work who seemed to like me back. We even fooled around one drunken night at a party. Soon after she would call or text me about her problems. She would just vent about everything. After a while I realized we didn't hang out at all or when we did all we talked about was her problems. I didn't mind it too much at the time because of my infatuation for her, but after a while my eyes opened up and I just got tired of it.

Don't sweat this too much, there are many people like this in the world. Some people don't even realize that they are using you, like in my case. She didn't realize what she was doing till I told her. We talk every once in a while, but like I told her, things were never going to be the same as they were. Good Luck.

 

Don't say that. I know it hurts to realize now that you've been used lately, but it happens to most all of us throughout our lives. (*hug*) Hope you feel better than what he made you feel like

 

Awwww. Yeah, that's a crappy feeling. You're worth so much more than some egotistical moron who sells you out.

 

yr being used is just cruddy. I mean I just ended a relationship because he waz using me. It really hurt me but I talked to his bestest friend and he is already looking for another guy and might b in another relationship. AHH :tantrum: guys :***: hehe :lol: