The other day in the car mum was talking about how it must be hard for people to realise their sexuality and come out and the whether or not someone is gay has no bearing on her life. It really came across that she was giving me an opportunity to tell her. But alas. I didn't. Still a little unready. It puts me in a good position though. A while ago I was really angry (5 stages of grief sort of deal) and wanted to send her a horrible letter and make her feel bad. Now I think it'll be a lot nicer to write her a letter that's nicer. I'll be moving out of home in a month or two and have planned to do it then.
That :/ should be a :)! If your mom does in fact know, even if it's earlier than you were prepared to come out, this is a good thing. I think the longer you're in the closet the more difficult it is to escape. You don't have to confirm that you're gay if you don't want to yet, but it should be comforting to know that you'll be accepted. If she gives you an opening like that again I strongly advise you to take it. It's a lot harder to bring up the subject on your own. Good luck!
sounds like a good mum really.:icon_wink its probly going to be a good feeling telling here.telling people like that is like opening a present.why not tell her in person?
You should tell her, it seems like she knows, doesn't care, and still loves you. From my experience, in that situation after saying "I'm gay!" their is the greatest feeling of relief you'll ever experience. (*hug*)