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Coming out without meaning too.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by finlandwrc, Jan 27, 2014.

  1. finlandwrc

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    Today at school one of my friends was teasing someone for looking gay. I walked up to them and asked them to stop as it's unfair to call someone gay just because they have a 'gay' hairstyle. They responded by saying 'well it doesn't matter there are no gay people to get offended unless you are gay.' To which I replied yes I am right out of the blue without meaning too and you know what it felt great to tell someone. :slight_smile:
     
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    Congratulations! Probably without even knowing it, you exhibited such bravery today. High five! How did they react to what you said?
     
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    Thanks they took it well I think hey just said that's cool and walked off so...
     
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    That's great! Two thumbs up! (Do you even get that reference? God, I'm old...)
     
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    I've been in a similar situation myself. I forget what exactly happened, but the conversation got a point where someone asked

    "Are you gay or something?"

    "Bitch, I might be!"
     
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    Zam, :roflmao:
     
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    Well done! I know it took a lot of courage to stand up and say that
     
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    You guys are lucky, when I mentioned boyfriends my friends asked if I was gay and I said "no , I'm bi". My friends don't believe me if it's in the right opportunity to reference it they think I'm kidding them.