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How to come out to my fiance.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by neverusedtobe, Feb 1, 2014.

  1. neverusedtobe

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    Can you guys give me some advice on how I should come out to my fiance please?

    The best and kindest way. Its going to destroy her but I need some damage limitation.... im a big softy not a sadist!
     
  2. Confused3

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    I recently went through this with my husband. I know it's so scary. I just sat him down and talked to him about being confused and not knowing what I want in life, but this was because I was still questioning whether I was bi or lesbian. It turns out he pretty much already knew. I'm really glad I told him. He has been my complete lifeline. I say just take your time through it and do it as you feel most comfortable. I wish I could give you some better advice. :/ However I'm here if you ever want to talk :slight_smile:

    Good luck!
     
    #2 Confused3, Feb 1, 2014
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