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NCOD: Good time to come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by warholwendy, Feb 3, 2014.

  1. warholwendy

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    Seems like it
     
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    Sure, but that's in October, you may want to come out sooner if you're considering when to do so.
    There's no pressure though, its whenever you're personally ready.
     
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    Thanks man

    ---------- Post added 3rd Feb 2014 at 11:02 PM ----------

    The thing is I want to have a set date a little into the future so if my parents break out the "it's just a phase" argument I can point out that I've been considering it since January
     
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    Come out whenever you feel you're ready. If setting a date helps you keep your goal, do it.

    However, I'm not so sure you "it's just a phase" argument holds -- I'm sure at this point you've already known you're not straight for awhile. :slight_smile: