So, some of you might know know me, if not, read my introduction post (but that's not neccesary at all). So I've come out to S (my best friend) some time ago already and everything is fine and good. But I have a prob now, not a 'tommorrow prob', no, a 'in an half hour prob'. I'm considering confessing my love for her but I'll change things. She already told me today that if I ever fall in love with her she'd help me get over it. I want that help since I've been in love with her for about 8 months now. She thinks I've asked her help on 'if' I fall in love. But I am. How do I tell her? I can send the convo if that helps anyone. BUT the prob is: I'll change stuff. She'll act differentely around me for sure, less of the super fun 'fooling around' as we are really close. Just because of her realisation. But... she'd might be of great help of getting over it as she's verbally really strong and great at reality. Do I keep it at the 'safe' talking about prevention with her or do I get out of my comfort zone? I'll keep you very updated and I'm online for sure. Thanks for reading!
Hey Aiko =) Well, what do you want to do? To me it sounds like you guys are really close and you trust her a lot, so honesty should be part of your relationship, right? So I'd say go for it. I guess she wouldn't have offered if she wasn't ready to try help you get over it. And since she apparently thought about the possibility of you being in love with her, your relationship might change, but maybe not as much as you think since it's not really out of the blue?!
I kinda started the subject, asking for help and asking 'what ifs'. I'm going to think about it a bit though.. She came online again. I'm going to go a bit in the still 'not yet but might happen' direction with talking to her and I guess I'll telll then.. In the right moment... Oof I'm so nervous hahah
Oof! I got the right moment! what now, i just... cant. im too nervous. what if it goes wrong? i cant even type normal anymore? She said: "... plus there isnt even a crush yet" I could say this (this comment is reasonable in our relationship but i just dont feel ready!: whoah am i that good a liar, did you really believe that 'im getting a crush' thing? why would I've started this convo man, i have one already, a bad one, an already 8 F*CKING MONTH one, i just finally kinda got the b*lls to tell ya, so here it is, do your verbal power, i need it, im so done with this sh*t ( the pain and all) so please. verbal power. now." i dont know what's reasonable on this site so i changed the swears in words with *
It really depends on you. If you think it would help you to tell her then just press the send button... I already wrote what I think about that. But if you feel really uncomfortable and not ready at all, don't do it. It's really your decision... Sorry, can't make the decision for you...
