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Porn doesnt turn me on anymore.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by total mo, Jul 5, 2008.

  1. total mo

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    I looked at sites with gay porn, and I really don't get excited. They just all look boring. I so need help! What do I do to get the interest back?
     
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    Uh...Give up porn for a while and then come back to it. Perhaps you just watch it too much.
     
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    Well, do something else, like uh.. getting a new hobby. Go gardening and stuff like that. :slight_smile:
     
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    same problem so i just give it up
     
  5. MeskElil

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    Probably giving it up, at least for a while, is the best move. Then you might forget about things and really like it when you get in a relationship and start doing things yourself :slight_smile:. But don't worry about it--just step away for a while.

    Also, try using your imagination instead of watching stuff. It's much more...safe, if you're worried about being caught, and you don't have to adhere to what the screen is showing--you can make stuff up as you go along.

    Just switch it up a bit.
     
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    Porn never turned me on in the first place. :O

    abnormal but i always spit up in my mouth when i see it...or maybe it's cuz i have only seen straight porn videos.:confused:
     
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    Give it up for awhile, that's what I did.
     
  8. Quitex

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    If you have hot dogs with Coke everyday for lunch, you'll eventually get bored. If you have to take out the garbage at 9:00, you'll eventually get pissed and bored. If you have hot sex with the same guy in the same position everyday at the same time, It'll get boring. So, porn does get boring too. After having plenty of them, a change must be done.
     
  9. total mo

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    I so need a vacation from gay porn. I do have my own place btw, and I dont have to worry about hiding my porn stuff, coz all of them are in my laptop, I dont go buy videos.
     
  10. Quitex

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    What you can do, IMO, is to explore new... porns?
    Perhaps you won't find it interesting at first, but there is anime porn which tends to be a little over the top <.<, or you could even try watching straight porn (some of the guys are really hot *TSK TSK*, etc.etc.etc.
     
  11. total mo

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    straight porn? thats suicide. i dont wanna look at titties.
     
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    I'd be more grossed out by the vaginas
    yuck
     
  13. total mo

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    i would be grossed out by every part of a woman's naked body.
     
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    so someone knows how i feel. When i wa sin high school, a group of boys were watching straight porn on PSP and i was forced to watch (to prove i was not gay) and this guy was analing this chick and i passed out and woke up in the nurses office:confused: No one spoke of it, so nether did i.

    so i was diagnosed with dehydration:dry:
     
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    I'm sorry Alex but that is hysterical!!!! :roflmao:
     
  17. total mo

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    same here! :roflmao:
     
  18. Quitex

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    The trick for straight porn: Do not focus on 'her', focus on 'him' >_>

    PS. Yeah that is. totally hysterical.
     
  19. smilealways

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    youre not gay? :rolleyes:
     
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    Hmmm... I don't understand the loss of interest in porn.. Because there is just so many different kinds out there. Like people have mentioned, try looking at some other porn. Male on male is alright, but it is not the only gay porn out there (other then Female on Female). Just look around.