Holy sh:***:t, a few months ago she kept asking me if there was any girl at school that I had a crush on and I said I didn't want to go out with any girls and she said "Well you're not going to go out with any GUYS are you?" and I said that if I did it would be my choice (not saying being gay is a choice but saying it would be my choice to pursue a relationship like this) and she got all pissed saying homosexuality is one of the biggest sins and then asked me if I was really saved or if I just did it because it was a fun thing to do (for the record I was totally serious about getting save but I'm an Atheist now so it doesn't really matter, she doesn't know that though) and then I just told her that I wanted to stop and she got pissed at that saying I was the one who brought it up. What the f:***:ck? If this is how she reacts to homosexuality I'm not sure I should come out as trans*. What should I do?
Mainly two options. 1. Don't tell her. At the moment, I would advise this (I'm guessing your young). It could turn ugly. 2. Tell her. This is a 50/50 choice, with high risk/high reward. It could help her to be less ignorant of LGBT. I do believe that in time, her attempts to 'cure' you will become futile that she will get the idea that it's normal. My own experience started tell my dad first, but he was in denial. He's still against homosexuality for religious purposes, but seems more open. Just have to work on my mom next-the more religious one ugh. Goodluck
I kinda have a feeling your mom will be very stubborn and difficult on the issue. If you do come out, maybe start by saying you like guys and have her get used to the idea of you being gay before you mention your a trans (gender?).
Maybe she will change her mind over time, people tend to do that when they have LGBT relatives. Do you still live your parents and are you financially independent from them?
Its your choice whether to tell her or not, if you are uncertain there could be someone else you wish to speak to who you trust.
