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Realisation

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Newgirl1966, Feb 15, 2014.

  1. Newgirl1966

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    ok so here goes, just had a realisation that the thing i have been searching for and finally found is that i think i am gay? Had a really deep attraction towards another woman and dont know how to deal with it! It feels amazing and need to explore my true sexuality more but feeling nervous and scared!!
     
  2. silverhalo

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    Hey congratulations. I know it seems scary right now but it will be ok.
     
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    Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets! As silverhalo mentioned, things will be fine. Coming to the realization that you have an attraction to women, is already a major step. As you continue to explore your sexuality, and also accept your sexual orientation at a deeper level, you will find that the scariness, and nervousness will subside.
     
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    Is she attracted to you, does she feel the same way? Oh n well done on expressing you feelings xxx
     
  5. Nicholas1991

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    Yay! Youre One of us now :lol: I remember that first realization, it was kinda scary but exciting at the same time. Congrats!