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Kinda Sad, Kinda Not

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Trumpetplyer23, Jul 10, 2008.

  1. Trumpetplyer23

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    Well, I was talking to my boyfriend over myspace (i know, not the best place to talk) and he asked me how much I liked him, and I told him the truth, that I liked him alot. Then he said that he liked me alot but he wasn't sure that we should go out, that we should just be friends for right now and see how it goes.

    The weird part is, despite the fact that I liked him a lot and we were dating, I'm not too terribly broken up about it all. I mean, I kinda feel sad, but it's not like I'm crying a river as I type this. I feel, neutral.

    And when I broke up with the boy before him, I didn't feel sad or upset or anything, and I was dating that guy for like, three months.....I feel like, I'm trying to think of a word, I don't know, I just feel, weird. Any idea what this means?
     
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    Well I think it means that you aren't all that attached to him and that you probably really are better as friends.
     
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    It sounds like that you are comfortable with being 'just' good friends with him. You like him and he likes you as well which is an important base for any friendship, doesn't matter how strong or weak that friendship is.