Hello everyone, started coming out last summer, and my life has been improving day by day. Now I feel I want to come out to an old and dear friend who happens to be gay. I'm pretty sure he is a bit into me, once he hit on me: I needed to crush at his place, and he asked if I wanted to sleep in the king-size bed with him or in the single bed. I don't feel any kind of attraction for him and I went for the single bed. Because of this, it feels a bit awkward to come out to him now. Any advice?
Tell him that you are gay, but that you don't like him. If you leave out the last part then he might see it as an opportunity and start to hit on you more. So you really need to make sure of you telling him that, or else he might start hitting on you where you want to remain closeted, and thus he would unwittingly out you.
