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How to find out if someone is gay

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BronzeElf, Mar 6, 2014.

  1. BronzeElf

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    Sorry for the double thread. I posted this in Chit Chat but then I thought it would be more appropriate here/I would get more responses to the topic.

    How do I find out if someone I know is gay?

    -He may or may not know I'm gay (may have overheard)
    -He is educated in equal rights (as an important current event)
    -Most of my girl friends think he's gay as well

    If so, how do I ask out said person?

    I know these are pretty general questions but I wanted to have a more broad feedback from everyone at EC.
     
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  2. newfish

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    Re: How to see if someone is gay

    Unfortunately, I don't know either. I just wanted to add that I, and I'm sure many others, are in the same boat. Wish I could answer this well, both to help you from that horrible state of not knowing, and because it would be nice for myself also.
     
  3. GayCJ

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    If he believes in equal rights, he would probably be accepting if you came out to him. If you came out to him and he was gay, then he probably would feel more comfortable about coming out to you. If anybody really came out to me, I would just say "What a coincidence! I'm gay, too!"