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coming out advice URGENT

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by brandonj20071, Mar 30, 2014.

  1. brandonj20071

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    I'm going to be coming out as bisexual to my best friend tomorrow and i was wondering if people who have gone through this already could give me any advice on how i should come out to her whether it be a simple "I'm bisexual" or to tell her in a way where she is aware i have something important to tell her



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    This is only a big thing if you make it sound like a big thing.

    Keep it simple. Just tell her you are bisexual. If she makes something of it, you can react, but you don't need to make it bigger than it is, ok?

    Keep calm, and just bring it up casually. This is part of who you are. All you are doing is stating it out loud. It doesn't need to be a big scary event!

    Good luck!
     
  3. MsKCorleone

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    There is nothing much to add to this one. I came out as bisexual before and I think it's the easiest when you just drop it as if it isn't that much of a deal-simply because it really isn't. If she is your friend, she won't even bother.

    I,too, wish you good luck! <3
     
  4. brandonj20071

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    thank you both i'll just tell her straight up and if she doesn't like me for who i am then she's no real friend and won't be a part of my life anymore
     
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    I wouldn't tell her that personally...I mean you don't want to START a confrontation.
     
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    "Hey I wanna tell you something."
    "What is it?"
    "I'm bisexual."
    "Ok."

    That's how my coming out has gone with all my friends. Super simple. It'll be fine! Don't worry :slight_smile: Good luck!
     
  7. brandonj20071

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    ahah i'll try that lol