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coming out to everyone.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by funnynate, Mar 30, 2014.

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  1. funnynate

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    as some of you may already know i'm out to family and a friend, and I really wanna tell every1 I know :slight_smile: I don't care about the bullying or abuse I just wanna let every1 know, I don't know how to do this so was wondering if you all had any advice.
    The hardest part will be telling this girl I know, ive known her for nearly 2 years and reli like her as a friend :slight_smile: but there is a problem I am supposed to be going to my grad with her but don't know how she will react when I tell her and more importantly I don't know how to tell her? Any advice is appreciated :slight_smile:
     
    #1 funnynate, Mar 30, 2014
  2. Rystor

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    im in the same boat as you, keep me updated? I have a friend whos a girl and I guess she expects more of me than a friend
     
    #2 Rystor, Mar 30, 2014
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    It's not fair to leave girl friends with false hopes.
     
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    Are there any hints that you can drop before you tell her?
     
    #4 PatrickUK, Apr 1, 2014
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    Do you know of any "hints" that she likes you? If so, this will make you telling her much more difficult.
     
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  6. funnynate

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    nah I don't think she see's more more than a friend.
    I told her today and she said she was completely fine with it :slight_smile: hugh relief now just to tell every1 else :lol:
     
    #6 funnynate, Apr 1, 2014
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