Kind of A Stupid Question, But I'm Asking Anyways

I don't think that's weird if she's your friend. If it was some random person from myspace, or like, a friend of a friend, then yeah, that would be weird. If you've had a fight or something maybe message her, but otherwise, I think it's fine to just give her a call.

 

It depends on how close a friend you are, I think. Have you ever had her number? Have you ever talked on the phone? If so, then go ahead. If not, a message by myspace might be warranted.

Lex

 

Just do it....if shes asks just tell her you got it from your friend....


then ask to do something...

 

just be like (on myspace). 'hey is it okay if i called? i'm going to guess if i don't get an answer back that it okay.' if she is bad at responding to messages. but that kind of makes it sound forceful to me so maybe not =/

 

Some people are just like that, you have to be direct otherwise they won't bother. Just call her and worry about the consequences later

 

if your not calling in a weird/stalkerish way, then its not weird.. and if she thinks that it is then shes the one with a problem..
+ at the end of the day whether its myspace/on the phone its still talking.. and if she msgs you back then shes not unopen to conversation,
if shes bad at msging back then calling her means thats not a problem.
id say go for it

 

Well honestly, I'd say call her. I met this guy on vaccation this past year and talked to him for all of a day and a half. I ment to grab his number before I left but things got hectic and I couldn't. I get a text 2 days later from him. He had asked one of my friends who was staying longer than me for my phone number. I didn't have a problem with it so yeah. You should be good.

 

I'd go ahead and call her. It's not creepy until you call her more often than she wants to talk to you. It wouldn't hurt to message her first, but if you interact better with people in a real conversation, then that's what you need to do. I have the same problem, I hate messaging on the interwebs, etc. When you talk in person, you can really read what a person is saying.

 

Call and just explain how you said "I would call her, if I had her number" and got given it. Or, if you're really in doubt, go the message, but unless she's made it clear she'd have a problem with friends passing on her details to other friends, it should be cool. It's certainly less stalkerish than snooping around in directories, and those tend to be public – available to anyone, not just friends with good intentions.

 

Why do all these people want you to contact her?

Lex

 

Yeah hun with all this going on maybe you should just message her and be like: hey i'm kinda old fashioned and prefer to talk on the phone. You think maybe I could have your number and we could talk that way? If not that is fine and we can just message.

Just keep it simple and let her know that it isnt the end of the world if she doesnt want to give you her number. It'll ward off that stalker sensation.