I know that this has probably been asked a lot but is thier any reason for my to come out as by to friends and family one of my friends know but as she forced me to tell her. I also think that my family knows as I used to keep porn on a memory stick that my brother found and he tells my perents everything my dads also saying that he wants to meet my girlfriend then he adds or a boyfriend. I know that they would be okay with it but I'm not sure I ready to admit it to them yet.
There is only 1 reason to ever come out to anybody. Because you think it's a good idea. If you don't want to, don't. Do it when and if you are comfortable with it.
Don't do anything you don't want to do and nobody should force you to do it either. If you want to tell people, then tell people. But only if you wanna I'm always here if you need to chat
Destinyinfinity I had to tell her as she kept asking I tried to get her to stop then once she asked me infront of people then they started asking so I told her and also told her not say anything and it doesn't bother me about people knowing as I think my family already know but as it is I don't think I'm ready to come out yet so I'll just wait for the moment Thanks for the advice
You only ever need come out if you choose too and only if you feel it safe for you too. By safe, I mean if you are dependant I'd say parents who set homophobic/bi phobic it's best to wait until you can support yourself. As I and the posters above say though, you only need to come out if you feel the need to. Happy days
I am dependent sort of I live with my mum but I have 2 jobs and will be moving out once I finish college I know my dad will be okay with it as my uncle in openly gay I'm not sure about my mum or my stepmom though
