Hello my queer friends I need some help coming out to some people I am a full time binding and all fellow who is not out to all my family and some of my friends just dont understand why i am changing What do i tell them? Most of my friends have left my side since i came out Which hurts yes but I have a set of grandparents i must tell! They are god lovers which is cool whatever floats your boat but.... Queer is NOT OK in there eyes .whimper. So help me out please!!!!!!
Hello thereDDDDDDDDDDDD Tell them that you fall in love with people not their gender If they can't accept this, then their not worthy of your time. As for your grandparents, I have kind of a similar problem to yours... The mindsets of older generation (for my case) is very, very hard to change. But tell them that you still love them no matter what happens..
Lesigh I dont know My mother wants me to keep in touch with them but the grandparents i live with still call me by my old name and pronuns Well everyone in my family munis an aunt does .facepalm. And shes only married in family why cant they all be like her :bang:
Grandparents are tricky. Mine bitch about the music I listen to (mostly if it's rap or pop) and it's not even that offensive. I can only imagine what they would say about me liking guys. Personally I'll probably just not say anything unless I end up dating a guy and they ask. Or if my mum wants to say something then fine she can tell them but I want to avoid causing drama with them since I get along with them for the most part. Also sorry for being dumb about this but is trans male a guy wanting to be a girl or the opposite? I havent ever talked to a trans person and I have no idea which pronoun to use for which phrase and I don't want to upset anyone here.
