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Coming out tonight

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by JennyKeys, Apr 16, 2014.

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  1. JennyKeys

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    I'm gonna be coming out as trans to a couple of friends tonight. It's a gay guy, a bi girl, and her straight fiance, so I'm not worried about them freaking out, but I'm still super nervous. But also kind of excited to be able to be a girl around them :3
     
    #1 JennyKeys, Apr 16, 2014
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    Good luck:thumbsup:
     
    #2 HM03, Apr 16, 2014
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    Good luck!
     
    #3 Just me1999, Apr 16, 2014
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    Good luck! Let us know how it went! :slight_smile:
     
    #4 Young Blood, Apr 16, 2014
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    Good luck x
     
    #5 Butterfly72, Apr 16, 2014
  6. JennyKeys

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    Oh my god I'm so scared, everyone's just sitting around chatting about stuff and I just can't do it... ><
     
    #6 JennyKeys, Apr 16, 2014
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    Deep breaths! You can do this girl! We believe in you! :slight_smile:
     
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    You can do it!! We're all supporting you. :slight_smile: Of course, if you're too uncomfortable don't, but you decided you would for a reason, so if you feel ready and can trust them, I say go for it!!
     
    #8 Im Just Me, Apr 16, 2014
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    we are thinking of you! :slight_smile:
     
    #9 Amerigo, Apr 16, 2014
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    Good luck!
     
    #10 YuriBunny, Apr 16, 2014
  11. JennyKeys

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    Goddammit, I just couldn't do it. It was just too intimidating...
    Now I'm not really sure if I should even come out at all. I just can't handle it.
     
    #11 JennyKeys, Apr 16, 2014
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    Would it be easier for you to write a note or send a message through text/email?
     
    #12 YuriBunny, Apr 17, 2014
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    its okay dont worry!! it is going to be really really hard to find confident but you will! maybe you could use email or letter if you feel comfier doing that?? ^.^

    hope whatever you do goes well!! ^.^
     
    #13 Yosia, Apr 17, 2014
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