I'm 29. I feel I'm attractive. I'm not ripped. I've had my share of hookups. Normally it's fine. But I'm a bottom. I thought I enjoyed sex. But with the catastrophe that was my last relationship 6 month ago I'm beginning to second guess myself. I like getting off. But...bottoming hurts. I'm not a top, no interest. But I want a relationship. Any suggestions? Or anyone with a similar problem? I want to be with someone but I have a problem matching his drive.
If you're a bottom, let's focus on what made it hurt. Did he use lube? Lots of lube? Did he push in slowly? Did he respond to your body, and not just force it in?
Have you bottomed with anyone else? If you answer yes to TJ's question you should get a medical opinion.
