Hi all In october last year I told my story here on EC. Quick summary: Im am a guy married to a woman, but have fallen in love with one of my male friends (who is also secretly in the closet). For those interested, you can read the full post here: http://emptyclosets.com/forum/comin...ea-where-go-here-please-help.html#post1705572 After much deliberation, I think I (along with my friend) have made the decision to come out and be who I am. It feels too right to not do so. We made this decision together. But we are really scared and worried about the consequences. If anyone has any advice regarding coming out at my age (mid 30s), as well as advice on trying to minimise the hurt that this will cause my wife and his kids, it would be so greatly appreciated. I do still care for my wife deeply and this is one of our biggest concerns in this matter: The hurt that it will cause our families. Thank you all.
