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Yep, just totally chickened out...again...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Stewbert, Apr 24, 2014.

  1. Stewbert

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    After reading all the incredibly helpful threads on here I had a plan for coming out to the parents...then they showed up and I completely choked. :bang:
     
  2. RedDev84

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    Unlucky mate!

    Don't worry, although it may feel like you will pull out every time. There will come a time you let it out.

    Have you perhaps considered a letter? Texting them? I consider telling someone face to face the hardest way about it. Perhaps you might find it easier using a different way.
     
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    I know that feeling... Several times, I have "planned" to come out to certain friends, and I always chicken out when I actually see them staring back at me. I hope to change this soon, though. Working my way toward coming out to my best friend currently.
     
  4. Holdingb

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    Pfft, it doesn't really matter :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Your sexuality and who you are shouldn't matter to anyone else, and should only be told when you are 100% ready to. If you "choked" then you must have had some second thoughts, and so you played it safe and decided to re-think it. Good luck for whenever you do come out ^^