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Should I talk to my therapist?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by w1e2e9s5a9L6ou, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. w1e2e9s5a9L6ou

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    I have been going to therapy for a year and haven't mentioned my sexual orientation.. I think she's taken a hint, cause she hints every now and again that she's accepting and loving of homosexuality.
    I've never told her about my feelings for girls or the one lesbian relationship I had, even when we talked about relationships a few times. I'm very nervous to even tell her, even though I know she's accepting and would care and be supportive, but I've been consumed with nerves/worrie the last 2 months more than ever because I feel like I'm hiding so much from my family. I tell myself that it's only 4 months until I'm away to university, but I have a thing with a girl here and I'm super scared they'll find out or reallize how giddy I get. I just need some advice and ideas to settle this anxiety but don't know how or if I should talk to my therapist about it... advice? :tears::bang::icon_sad:

    Louisa
     
  2. Andrew99

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    Ya u might wanna go for a visit to your therapist it really wouldn't hurt.

    Take care Louisa (*hug*)
     
  3. TurnerDogg

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    Well, why would you tell your therapist? Why not friends instead?

    I just don't see the point, unless you want therapy about it.