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Which way is better

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by me123, Apr 28, 2014.

  1. me123

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    So I am highly debating coming out to one of my friends in the very near future. I just don't know the best way to go about it. I am trying to decide if I want to like sit down and just be like, okay, here is whats up. Oooor, if I want to slide it into conversation somewhere and just see what the reaction is. She is very openly gay herself so I don't see it being a problem or anything, but I just don't want it to be awkward.

    Any suggestions?
     
  2. Best of Both

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    I would just come right out and say it
     
  3. Holdingb

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    Being more up front is less likely to cause confusion and help your "situation." If you try and be like, "Oh dem sports teams, I'm gay, how about dem." I would expect to see a few.. confused looks.

    Come out to friends, don't come out to friends, whatever :3 Best of luck regardless! ^^
     
  4. mln123

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    As your friend is openly gay, I'd say use whichever approach you prefer. It doesn't really matter, she will be over the moon when she hears the news.
     
  5. rainmustfall

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    Yeah I am pretty sure they will just be really happy that you are willing to be open and trust them enough to know.
     
  6. me123

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    Thanks. I am sure it will go fine. I feel like she knows because she always tries to have these beat around the bush conversations about it haha. Its just weird to think of just saying. I know she will be excited though.