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Coming out Hypersexual

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by GayNurse95, May 11, 2014.

  1. GayNurse95

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    Howdy, I am Mads.
    I already came out to my parents as a lesbian, and they responded with some embarrassment, red in the face. They still love me though.
    I am having multiple urges from nothing several times in a day. Its known as hypersexuality (I think). I don't try to let it take over me, but some have suggested to get it looked at. I'm not looking to people to solve it, but the concern arises with a married relationship with a woman, that she may not handle my urges. Its given to me by God to please my future wife, whoever she may be.
    The problem is, though I am 18, I need to face my parents and insurance. They will question me on why I need to go there.
    How do I tell them about getting issue solved?
    :help::help::help:
     
  2. Chip

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    Since you're 18, I don't think you really need to tell your parents why you'd like to go to the doctor. You could say it's personal and you'd like to discuss it with the doctor (or psychologist, or whomever.)

    It can be hard for some parents to accept their children as adults but I think if you do your best to work with them they'll understand.
     
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    Thanks. But the thing is what about the bill? Everytime I see a doctor, a bio is sent to our house, and they'll want an answer.
    What do I do then?
     
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    You tell them you went to the doctor. You don't have to tell them why.
     
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    Thanks everyone
     
  6. Fallingdown7

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    Hypersexuality can suck. I was there at your age. When I went on the depo shot (even though it was for menstrual issues) it really helped lower my sex drive to a normal level that didn't disrupt my daily life. I think a lot of hormone related birth control can also do the trick.

    Good luck!