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I feel uneasy when I think of coming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ChromeNerd, May 13, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    I've been questioning for a long time. It has been an exhausting journey. I'm getting more and more sure that I'm gay. Sometimes I still question myself, but it's getting less and less intense. Whenever I come out as gay or not straight I feel uneasy. It feels like I'm naked. When I came out as bi I barely felt anything. Even though the idea of being bi makes me uneasy.
     
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    I asked one of my gay friends about this and he gave me a local awnser. He told me to come out when I'm ready. It sounds simple but it makes sense. Be very select on who you tell tho.
     
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    This. Maybe your best friends or someone you're close with in your family.
    Also, I didn't understand very well, but... are you unsure of your sexual orientation between gay and bi?
     
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    I'm still a bit unsure, but not as unsure as I used to be.
     
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    I'm unsure about when I should come out to my parents. I know I'll eventually have too. I just can't hide it from them. But the question is when... Ugh.... I'm dreading that day...