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should i tell them?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by rarity von 666, May 14, 2014.

  1. rarity von 666

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    ok, my parents know im gay but they don't know that i'm transgender. my mom had said she would never let me or my sister get the surgery. my dad makes fun of transsexuals so i don't know i should come out as transgender or not. please help me
     
  2. BookDragon

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    Well keeping it a secret isn't going to change how you feel inside, and there is more to being trans than surgery.

    Once you get to 18 it's not like they can stop you, so you could always wait until then and do it ANYWAY, but personally I would want to at least TRY and get my parents support before then...
     
  3. rarity von 666

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    yeah i don't plan to tell them soon but thanks for the advice :slight_smile: