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need advice!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Alexa33, May 14, 2014.

  1. Alexa33

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    so im planning to come out/break up with my current boyfriend we have been dating for over a year and he is kind of sensitive and i just dont really know what i should say i know he is not against LGBTQ people but im really stressing if he will still be my friend or not:icon_sad: please help if you have any adice
     
  2. ChainsrGone

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    You need to just follow your heart and do what you feel is best. If he chooses to walk away from you as a friend, then he never really was a good friend because friends don't walk away...they stand by you and support you.
     
  3. Alexa33

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    thanks! that makes me feel much better
     
  4. love dont judge

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    Just do what you feel is right. If he thinks that you're a lier,or that there is something wrong with you( and there isnt) then he wasnt ever a friend and i wouldnt want to be friends with him if i were you.
     
  5. mangotree

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    Just make sure he understands that he didn't turn you gay.

    Good luck and peace be with you.