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Creative ideas to come out as genderfluid?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by ShiroKage, May 18, 2014.

  1. ShiroKage

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    I don't want to tell them directly since I would stumble over my words. Crossdressing isn't really an option either since I'm a cosplayer and they aren't getting the hints through that. I've done things like mention how I hate having breasts and that I wish I looked like a boy. They just say that I'm not a boy and I'll grow out of it (they said that 7 years ago too). :dry: I just really want them to ask "Are you trans*?' instead of "Why would you want to be a boy". I'd rather it be a yes/no question not something where I have to actually say "Well, because I'm genderfluid". I guess it's kinda impossible. But even something like bake a cake or write a note would be a better option. I'm typing too much now, but please help me out here!
     
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    Ok I don't exactly know what genderfluid means buy from context I'm assuming "boy trapped in a girls body" type of thing. I think that if you want people to know the easiest way would be to just say it but I'm a person that's very honest with everyone so maybe if you're less comfortable you could say "have you ever felt like you were born the wrong gender?" And the other person would probably say "yes/no, have you" and then you get your nice easy yes or no question. I hope I was helpful!
     
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    Well, you somewhat have the idea. It means that I'm a boy, a girl, and sometimes something in between. Like a sliding scale I guess. But thanks for the input!
     
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    Maybe write a "Congratulations it's a boy...girl...uhmmm" card? Then on the inside have a definition of Genderfluid?
     
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    That is probably the best idea I've ever heard!
     
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    Thanks c: Hopefully you're good with art :grin:
    Maybe have your preferred pronouns in there as well(and chocolate!)
     
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    That's a really cute idea