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OK so I'm doing it

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BananaB, May 27, 2014.

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  1. BananaB

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    I'm doing it. I'm sending a message to my best friend saying everything about how I'm feeling. I'm shitting myself right now. I won't see her for a month so I hope that any shock or whatever settles by that point and it won't be weird.

    :eek::eek:
     
    #1 BananaB, May 27, 2014
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    So proud of you! All will be well (*hug*)
     
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    Sent it. God I feel sick.
     
    #3 BananaB, May 27, 2014
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    Breathe.... Taking the first step is always the hardest.... Sending you a big hug!!
     
    #4 Hyaline, May 27, 2014
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    (*hug*). You're gonna be ok :slight_smile: it was really brave to tell someone.
     
    #5 Seige, May 27, 2014
  6. BananaB

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    OK. Thanks guys. Turning my laptop off now and going to sleep. Hopefully by the time I get up she'll have read it. I'll update you tomorrow.
     
    #6 BananaB, May 27, 2014
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    I'm sure things will be fine. Proud of you for having sent the message. (*hug*)
     
    #7 Mirko, May 27, 2014
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    "....If you ever wanna talk (/send messages), I'll be here. And let's face it bubz, you're stuck with me as your bff regardless of whether you love Juan or Juanita. I love you (cliché ahead) just as you are, bubblesea."
     
    #8 BananaB, May 28, 2014
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    I'm sure all will be well. You should be proud of yourself for just taking the plunge.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    That was a pretty fantastic response you got from your friend, Bubblesea :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #10 Tetra, May 28, 2014
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    embrace the weirdness. (&&&)
     
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    great step taken.. good luck for tomorrow. and do update us on same :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats! Glad it went well!
     
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    WOOT!! Love it when friends just treat us the same way... Really helps validate that you made good choices when choosing them as friends...
     
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    YAY!! Congrats!! :slight_smile:
     
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    Happy to read it went so well! :thumbsup: Congrats!
     
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    It's literally like someone's lifted a weight off my shoulders.
     
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    thats such a great feeling.. congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    This is great! Aw her response is definitely how a genuine best friend would respond! So touching :slight_smile: Congrats.
     
    #19 ChloeKiss, May 29, 2014
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