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Well. I fucked up.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Brooklyn Rage, Jun 2, 2014.

  1. Brooklyn Rage

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    The other day, I'm just watching tv with my maternal guidance figure when my :***: little sister walks in.
    Don't ask me why the :***: I was thinking, telling her in the first place :eusa_doh: but that little :***: decided that it was a great idea to try coming out for me.

    :eek: :tears:

    My first instinct was to lie of course, so I played it off.

    :roflmao: :eusa_liar

    Unfortunately this decision has left me in two potentially sticky situations:
    1) When I'm coming out, this will bite me.
    Or
    2) They'll draw the lines themselves and stuff WILL get ugly.

    :bang:

    :help:
     
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    might as well do it now,

    like peeling off a bandage (....well , the kind that actually stick to begin with)
    people like to avoid the subject so bringing it up in the future will be just as hard as it feels right now.

    better to let someone else use this opportunity and then you just say "maybe, I'm not even 100% sure myself yet"
     
  3. Brooklyn Rage

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    Well, that happened days ago and I am indeed sure. Sooooooooooooo
    :bang:
     
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    I like to use situations like that to simply say, "Surprise". Just gotta work with what is given to you, even though you don;t have much to say, just say anything.

    But either way, it brought your time closer and that you should be thankful for. :slight_smile:
     
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    That might work with human beings, but not my family.
    Definitely not my family.