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My first date (maybe) is tomorrow!!!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by vampireboy56, Aug 16, 2008.

  1. vampireboy56

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    im so nervous, i don't know what to wear....but im so excited...advice:help:
     
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    Is this the same guy from your other thread? If so, good job with handling it.
    I'm really happy for you that you managed to get a date with him.
    Is this an "official" date or just friends thing.
    Whatever you do don't try to be someone your not.
    Just be yourself and you'll be fine.
    As for what to wear, I really don't know how you like your wardrobe so I can't say.
     
  3. Helen

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    I agree, definitely don't be someone you're not, even if it is just a friends thing.

    And remember, if you be yourself and he doesn't appreciate that, he doesn't deserve you :slight_smile:

    But I'm sure everything will be fine, wear whatever you like (I'd draw the line at chicken costumes though :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:)

    Also, congratulations on managing to ask him :slight_smile: Have fun!
     
  4. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    Wear something that's pretty normal for you, but a little special. Don't go over the top. Wear something you'd happily wear any day of the week, but maybe with an extra twist. Going too over the top might freak him out, so just be yourself.
     
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    wear something that suit where you are going.

    Where are you going by the way?
     
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    >>>i don't know what to wear.

    I'm gonna suggest "clothes". :slight_smile: Have a good time.

    Lex
     
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    Once again lex wins with the awesome advice...
     
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    Relax and be yourself.

    Wear clothes that you feel comfortable in it will help you to be more relaxed.

    I hope it goes well. Good Luck
     
  9. ctw0625

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    hey, congrats. i don't really have much advice to add though... just be yourself and dress pretty much as you normally would, tweaked a bit to fit with wherever you're going. hope everything goes well!
     
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    That's great! Just be yourself and have a good time. Let us know how it went.
     
  11. Perrygay

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    Advice>>>>>

    Don't have sex. Lol, well, I won't advise that because that's totally up to you, but it's a good idea :slight_smile:

    Oh and have fun. I hope the two of you really like each other. As for the clothes issue, but wear what you usually do but a little nicer, ya know? Like maybe wear a nice wristband/necklace or something.
     
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    Yay! Just play it cool and don't stress too much.
    It will go fine! (*hug*) :icon_bigg
     
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    So, how did it go? :slight_smile:
     
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    Let us know how it went!!
     
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    Well, I am late to this thread, but I am curious to hear how it all went!
     
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    It was great...he was really sweet, we saw The Dark Knight....and we talked and went to Pinkberry (an ice cream place) and then waited for my sis to pick me up then said bye. It was fun but he's not my type...and I think that I just may want to be friends
     
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    Well good to know that you had fun. Too bad he wasn't very much your type though. Pinkberry owns.
    Haha did the same thing with my friend (not a date) last week at the Americana in Glendale
     
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    That sounds like a really good date. I'm sorry he wasn't your type but it's good that you realised and accepted that now, and can hopefully become friends. Plus it's good practice for the next date, which could be with your perfect guy. :slight_smile:
     
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    It sounds like a great date. :slight_smile:
     
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    we went to the Americana for the movie and pinkberry...it was so pretty