How long does it take for your parents to come around?

Unfortunately that is basically impossible to answer, because it depends on so many things.

I mean it could be that if you have a good relationship with a guy, she will back off and accept it...it could be that she will think it through and realise how daft she is being in a few more weeks, maybe if she speaks to somebody else about it.

It could be that she never fully accepts the idea that you are completely gay, and always secretly clings to the idea that you'll one day have a wife...

It really isn't something you can predict I'm afraid!

 

To tell you I don't know. Give your mom time and don't pressure her to accept your sexual orientation. She might be in a stage of denial but she'll come around in time. And just be yourself and be proud of who you are. God Bless

 

It seems to me that what may be going on is your mom simply wanting you to be happy and realizing that this fact is going to make your life harder--and struggling against that for your sake. My parents were remarkably accepting from the get go. But they were paralyzed with fear for me. They were painfully aware that a lot of people would be awful to me for no other reason than the fact that I was gay--and for that reason they desperately wanted me not to have to go through that. The only thing that calmed those fears was seeing me thrive and flourish in life. They almost immediately saw that rather than this new life making things harder for me it made me happier and they were finally able to accept it completely because that was all they had really wanted for me all along.

 

WTF: "I just want you to experiment with a girl first so you know for sure". What a terrible thing for anyone, especially a woman, to say. If I had a daughter I wouldn’t want anyone “experimenting” with her messing with her feelings and emotions.

I’m sure your mum will come round in the end, but if there is any experimenting to be done I suggest you find yourself a nice guy and have a fun safe time. According to good scientific methods the experiment should be repeated several, preferably many, times to ensure an accurate consistent result :icon_bigg. The experiment should of course examine the impact of other variables such as location, soft lighting, background music, perhaps a drop or two of alcohol etc. It may be necessary to repeat the series of experiments with other test subjects to find the optimum conditions for happiness.

If by some remote chance you are straight I am sure you will realise this very soon into the experiment if not before if starts.:eek:

Have fun in finding out who you are .

Sale Gay Guy

 

This is what I'm worried about or that the church people will be extra nice to me thinking I have back-slidden into sin.