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Just Came Out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by coolcat13769, Jun 8, 2014.

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  1. coolcat13769

    coolcat13769
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    Gender:
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    Sexual Orientation:
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    I just came out and one of my friends keep asking why I made the decision what do I tell her I don't know how to explain it to her
     
    #1 coolcat13769, Jun 8, 2014
  2. revi

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    Explain to her it's NOT a decision and never will be. You are hardwired this way and can't change. That would be my first suggestion. If you have anymore questions post an update.
     
    #2 revi, Jun 8, 2014
  3. JohnB

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    Tell her it wasn't a hard decision to make, that you were tired of hiding who you really are, and wanted to be happy and live your life.

    ---------- Post added 8th Jun 2014 at 11:07 PM ----------

    Meaning the only decision there was if you wanted to hide and live a lie, or wanted out.
     
    #3 JohnB, Jun 9, 2014
  4. biffle50

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    Tell her that it's how you feel and you wanted to be proud of who you are.
     
    #4 biffle50, Jun 9, 2014
  5. mangotree

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    Do you mean she's questioning your decision to come out?
    Or the decision to "be bisexual"? (some people still believe it's a choice)
     
    #5 mangotree, Jun 9, 2014
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