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I told my sister... she was upset

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by duende84, Jun 9, 2014.

  1. duende84

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    I told my sister this morning and she was upset.

    She reckons my mom will have a physical hearth-attack when I tell her and my dad will lose his temper on me...

    So yeah... its kind of a small victory but also does not bolster my guts to tell my folks.

    She also laid a few religious views in front of me about that it is a deadly sin and that I should take the first best woman. :confused:

    :tears:
     
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    If she dosent warm up to you coming out you should tell her it wasn't a choice and it was the way god made you and that no matter what you still have to see her at thanks giving ok that was bad
     
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    Well done for telling her, sorry you have to put up with her ass-backward opinions...
     
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    Hi. dont feel bad.. consider it as 'one family member checked'.. jus two are left now.. keep shedding this weight off your shoulder.. one by one. u'l be good :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you guys. We did have a very long conversation... I will continue to converse with her until I feel she sees my side fully.
     
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    Good luck with that, I hope you win her over!
     
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    See, I have an older sister that I think I get along best with; it's been in my thoughts to coming out to her first..I don't know though (y'know).