can suck balls...:| I posted a while ago about the 'talk' me and my parents had, where Mel (my dads girlfriend) was really understanding and you were all "shes lovley" :dry::dry::dry::dry: She asked meif i wanted her sons to know. (back then) And i said no. She asked if she wanted me to get her to tell them. I STRICTLY said no. Then my brother five minutes ago coms up into my room and tells me Ben (Mels son) knows, and that Mel told him. WHAT THE FUCK. I SAID NO. Because i knew that Ben would be an immature prick about it. So Earlier today he goes giggling at my brother and tell him he knows... then starts having the typical gay jokes... I cant wait until he says something to my face. Its inevitable that he will. Ill actually shot hm down the stairs. :tantrum::tantrum: FUCKING COCKEND SHITTY WANK BASTARD ARSE TIT FUCK!!!!! I officially have a vendetta on that tart of a woman... :bang::bang:
Well some people just can't get their mouths shut. However, holding onto a grudge isn't going to do you any good. I would simply remind Mel that you asked her not to tell but now that she has, she should have a talk with her boys about the "gay jokes". It's tiring and hurtful!
aha i dont keep grudges... but i think im just going to make her feel guilty for being such a gobshite
Talk to her and tell her how you feel about what she did. Also try to remember how helpful she was when you were telling your dad.
You should tell her how you feel once you calm down from all this. I'm sorry it turned out that way for you.
Don't. Someone's gotta be a better person here. Make it you. Save the guilt card for if/when her kids start making fun of you. Then you can say, "Well, remember how I asked you not to tell them? Well, I said that hoping to avoid stuff like this..." This helps move the responsibility of her kids' behavior squarely back on her shoulders. Lex
