Lockerroom erections

I'm sorry that you have to go through this, anyone who is uncomfortable with their body or what it can do (guilty as charged) probably feels this way.

Some tips that I think you could do:
- Change behind your towel, I'm sure most will do that
- Change facing a wall
- There may be changing rooms

As for the naked showering, there is a very high percent that many people will be feeling the same way: "Oh God!"
If the shower is not mandatory just skip it because as you posted "put your swim trunks on" it sounds like its for a swimming class type course, when ever I did a swimming class I hardly showered after.

One last thing I can suggest, (a little cliché) talk to a councilor about this issue or have a parent talk to the teacher and maybe they could offer some tips.

Good luck! Hope I helped!

 

Well, we didn't have to shower at my middle school.
But my advice would be not to look (ok, you can glance every once and awhile... :icon_wink ) and to try and keep your mind on other things.

 

Yeah, I understand about not talking to anyone.
Like Muzzy said, just keep your mind on other things. Just sing a song in your head.

Combine that with the easy "change-next-to-a-wall" trick and it will (or at lease should) go smoothly!

Good luck on your venture into public changing!

 

Youll probabl be so nervous about getting one, itll be impossible to get one.

 

Whenever I get an unwanted erection, I always think of the most vile and appalling thing that I possibly can.

Think of a cute puppy getting mashed into a blender, or of somebody taking a syringe and injecting it into their eye. Something that would make you squirm shouldn't turn you on. (Hopefully)

Aside from imagining something awful, try to solve complex puzzles, math equations and the like in your head to take your focus.

Hope that helps

 

Think of GIRLS!!!


Wait you're bi....that would only make it worse...

Think of your parents having sex

 

Why not wear them to school, or under your clothes? Hmm... I'm sure it'll go fine. Just try not to look at the other guys or think about something else?

 

We never had to shower or anything back in highschool. However, these days I frequent a local pool and change/shower naked just like everyone else. Basically, just don't look! Concentrate on your shower or getting dry and changed, and ignore everything else. Sometimes it's hard not to peek, but yeah, in general it's not a problem!

Another point is that if you go into to change rooms panicking about getting a hard-on, you will probably end up getting one

 

For changing, use a towel or even go into a toilet cubicle. Nobody will even notice.

At the last school I went to, showering was mandatory. I showered in my swimming stuff, as did many others. I expect the same might happen at your school too.
Most 13 year old boys don't want anyone to see their nether-regions, so you aren't alone in that.

As for the erections, dress yourself quickly, don't go looking at the other boys and don't worry! Keep your mind occupied with something else.

 

I really should not have looked into this thread.
I feel like Juno McGuff.
To Quote "When I see them running, with their things just bouncing around, ALL I SEE IS PORK SAUSAGE!"

Anyways. Think about maths or something you really hate when you're changing. That way you won't be thinking about the cute guys standing around you.
For the "weighty" issue, I think it would be easier for you if you didn't have to see other people's reactions, so change in a corner or facing the wall

Hope this helped.

 

I don't know about everyone else, but when I am in a public shower I just stare at the floor or my own body. I try not to even look at other people. When I was a bit younger I was very self-conscious (I have some serious scars in various places and a little bit of a belly) and had to take showers with other guys. Like rocking23 said everyone is thinking the same thing, 'This sucks, I don't want to shower neked in front of other guys... This is gay.' Things like that. I don't think you will have a problem here dude.

And about the boner thing... I'd say just concentrate at the task at hand. Getting clean. If you can't control it.. then shower quickly? I've mastered the one minute shower. Maybe you should too. Good luck.