I've always had an attraction to girls, but I've always tossed it aside thinking it was just "girl crushes". About 3 years ago, I had my first experience with a girl and started to consider myself bi. I never told anyone though. Recently, I've been doing a lot of thing and have concluded that I am a homoromantic bisexual, meaning I hold sexual attractions to both men and women but I only want to be with a women romantically. I want to start dating women but I have a boyfriend. I started dating this guy two years ago, and while he's been a good friend, he isn't really the best boyfriend. We'll go a long while without talking and he lives an hour away so that has put more strain on it. Even through all this I can tell he is deeply in love with me. It freaks me out because I love him as a friend, but I'm not IN love with him. I'm wondering how to come out to him? I don't want to wait to much longer because it's selfish of me to stay with him even when I know we have no future together.
