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Just came out to my Mom!!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by TheFSM, Jun 19, 2014.

  1. TheFSM

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    Oooh! I am so frigging happy right now...
    Soo the conversation started with me saying that my chest hurt. Then I complained about having a large chest. i told her I don't want it, and that i am thinking of getting a breast reduction. I told her that i would preferably like to get it all chopped off. She than told me that they don't do that. Then I said that I know, I said but they do it to the boys.
    She then asked me: "do you want to be a boy?"
    I said: "No, But I don't want to be a girl neither."
    She didn't say anything, I layed on her lap so I couldn't see her facial expression. she didn't say anything about it at first. But later on she told me that I already talked to her about gender Identity (not about mine specifically). I thought I had only talked to my dad. She asked me if I talked to my psychologist about it, and I said no.
    Sooo yeah... there is that, she seems to be positive about it. And I am so happy that I got that off my chest. (no pun intended) As I went away I cried because i was so frigging happy about it. It is such a relief just telling her. :icon_bigg
     
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    Congratz! Happy for ya :grin:
     
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    That is awesome; congrats!! I'm glad you were able to get it "off your chest" (pun intended, hehe!). And YAY that she reacted positively, too!
     
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    thanks I am still crying and laughing.. I am so overwhelmed.. I can't stop..
     
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    that is great! Always enjoy hearing good news!
     
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    Awesome! Nice to hear that it went well! :thumbsup:
     
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    Congrats! ^.^
     
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    Excellent news.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    so proud of you!
     
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    thank youuu so much guys!
     
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    Congrats! It's great to hear it went well!!!