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Coming Out Letter

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Young Blood, Jun 21, 2014.

  1. Young Blood

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    Just writing this right now makes me nervous, but here is what I have of my coming out letter to my stepmom. It would mean so much to me if you guys could read it over and let me know if it sounds ok! Thank you so so much! Here goes *takes deep breath*:

    "Dear Lucy,

    I know that you don't really like things written to you and that you would much rather have things said to you face to face, this is something that is really hard for me to say out loud. I'm just going to come out and say it. I'm bisexual. I'm not confused and it's not a phase. I am attracted to both boys and girls. I've questioned this for about 4 years and have only just figured it out and started to accept it. I hope that you can also accept me and still love me for who I am. If you have questions, then we can sit down and have a conversation and I'll try to answer them the best I can.

    I love you."

    Please let me know what you guys think!!! I'm so nervous...
     
  2. YuriBunny

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    Fixed a grammar mistake. ^^ But other than that, I think it's perfect. Good luck!
     
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    Short, sweet, and to-the-point. I like it, and it pretty much addresses most of the thoughts people may have when someone else comes out to them.

    Best of luck! We'll be here for you if you need support! Let us know how it goes?
     
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    Dang...I meant to put that and I didn't...

    Thank you so much though! That makes me feel better :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 21st Jun 2014 at 04:27 PM ----------

    Thank you so much! I will definitely let you guys know :slight_smile: (*hug*)
     
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    Good luck! It looks pretty much perfect!
     
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    Thank you! :slight_smile:
     
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    looks pretty good. definitely quick and to the point. i send out good hopes for you that she responds well in return.
     
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    Thank you so much! All of you guys are definitely making me feel a little better about it :slight_smile: