So I can't believe it happened....I was taking to my best guy friend and a girl that's a really nice. This girl who is older than me...is going through the same thing about trying to find love and feeling confident. I told her and my best friend the fears I had. Then the bars close....and I left with my best guy friend because my car was at his place. The subject came up about me possibly trying things out with this girl. I don't find her physically attractive....and she did put an offer on the table. Knowing that I got friendzoned recently....part of me wants to try things with her cuz shes so nice...but part of me is like...I could not be with her cuz I'm trying to figure stuff out and trust issues. Then I asked my friend...can I trust you. And I was hyperventilating while he was driving. And I just let him know that I am attracted to both girls and guys. And in my older post...he did said he was open minded and he talked about his experiences...which made me feel better. Now I do have a little of a fling for him...but hes engaged and I know nothing is gonna become of us. I was afraid that he was gonna ask if I was attracted to him. I did let him know that he was the first one....and he told me he will not tell anyone and if I needed to talk ever...I could. It made me so relieved that after all these years...I was able to tell someone I trust.
Congrats! It gets easier to tell people! I've come out to 12 school friends now, but I'm not sure how many know (rumours spread like wildfire in this poxy school)
Congrats! You, sir, just gave me some motivation to come out to my best guy friend. Whenever I do, I hope he's as cool about it as yours... Let him know he's a good friend!
