Hello! I have had a burning question for a while now. Am I gay? I'm still not sure, but hope that some people here can give me some advice. I have been brought up in a mainly homophobic community, and have been sheltered from gay things. However, like the curious fuck I am; I searched gay porn on the internet a few times and found myself aroused. But not as much as I would be if I was watching straight porn. I think i may be slighly bi, but I am not sure. I was hoping that somebody could help me out a bit. And if the inevitable evidence does point to me being bi, or as think is less likely, gay; please may someone give me a few tips on how to safely come out, without much hassle, if you know what I mean. Sorry, but this account is only temporary, as the name suggests. Thank you for reading this far.
Porn preference doesn't necessarily indicate sexuality. Here's the question: are you attracted to guys? Because if you're exclusively attracted to women, but you like gay porn, you're still a straight guy.
Hey, I've been aroused before by straight sexual activity. But, that doesn't mean I'm straight. It is possible that you are bi or gay, but you can't be sure just based off of porn. The fact is that we, as human beings, are generally aroused by viewing or partaking in sexual activity, regardless of what kind. It's about who you find personally attractive. What determines your sexuality is if you want to pursue a romantic and sexual relationship with women, men, or both. That's the only real way to judge it. It takes time and patience to figure it out, but all you have to do is really think about it.
