So I've been dating this guy since september, and I really like hanging out with him and I think he's handsome and kind but I am not attracted to him. My best friend just had sex with her boyfriend, so in response I got drunk and told my boyfriend (who is in Russia) that I wanted to have sex with him. The thing is I really don't want to do that, with any guy. Only one person knows this. I had a girlfriend who I really liked, and had a painful crush on my ex-bff, and both of them I was attracted to. What do I do and how do I tell my boyfriend without him hating me? PS: He was raised conservatively in Russia and he is somewhat homophobic.
You don't have to tell him you're gay if you don't want to. Just say that you don't think it's working out, which it isn't. You're still telling the truth. He might be upset, but you've got to tell him sometime. It won't be any easier later on, and it would probably be best to get it over with.
