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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bitou, Sep 2, 2008.

  1. bitou

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    I just started school and I have already a crush on a guy in my math class. He looks at me when I look at him , but I dont know how to approach him. Please help I am kinda of new on these stuff.
     
  2. ausdtc

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    Hey!

    I'd start with becoming friends with him, and hang out, do things together. See where it leads :slight_smile:
     
  3. Swamp56

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    As ausdtc said, become friends first >.< . Don't overwhelm him :wink: ? Does your gaydar go off when you see him? Does he act gay/bi?
     
  4. bitou

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    I think that is a good idea. Thanks
     
  5. bitou

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    I think he act bi . I dont understand my gaydar , but I think that he is .He has a pretty strong eye contact and keep it when I look at him. I just need an Icebreaker.
     
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    IceBreakers, Liquid Ice!
     
  7. Swamp56

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    LOL @ above post ^

    Ya, just start eyeing him a bit, and see if you notice him staring when you're not looking :slight_smile: . Are you an open bisexual or are you somewhat closteted (that not many people know) ?
     
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    don't hurt yourself. <3
     
  9. bitou

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    I am kinda in the closet
     
  10. Trayce Shaw

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    be safe and make sure he is right for you. Just approach like you would a friend, or while you are at lunch ask "what's goin on"
     
  11. Derek the Wolf

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    How close are you to him? If you're friends already, and you think he'd be okay with it, you can tell him you've got a crush. If you think he'd be weirded out by that, or you're not particularly close, take some time to get to know him better. Just see how things work out.
     
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    Probably a nice way to break the ice would be for you to ask help from him in a particular topic, I mean, its math anyway and unless you're good at it, you have the reason too :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Or maybe, when you're in the cafeteria and you see him, go talk to him and strike a conversations like "hey, aren't you in my math class.. blah blah" "Hows it doing?"

    Don't be scared! Its easier to regret awkward conversations than to regret not having them. :grin:
     
  13. bitou

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    Thank you so much for your advices.