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Coming Out To Ex Stepdad's Girlfriend

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Polterpup, Jul 30, 2014.

  1. Polterpup

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    Well, that was complicated to type...and to read. Well, anyway, my ex stepdad's girlfriend is coming in from Canada and I really feel like I should tell her about, well...my sexuality. Only my friends know, but she is so cool...I dunno, I just wanna tell her! She's my broski after all. Any advice in HOW I should tell her? She's pretty accepting. And I'm pretty sure she has some gay friends. I just don't know how to tell her about myself...
     
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    I must sound like a broken record, but I'll say it again:

    You can try to do it subtly. If you're the one to watch TV, you can comment on how lovely the ladies look. Maybe use hot or sexy or cute - something that doesn't scream "I just want to look like her!" and screams "I'd tap that!"

    ...

    Okay, maybe not "I'd tap that" - and maybe you DO want to look like her, but you know what I mean, right?

    This can also work if you go out in public.

    Otherwise, you can just tell her outright that you're gay, or give her a note or text.

    Best of luck.