Well, that was complicated to type...and to read. Well, anyway, my ex stepdad's girlfriend is coming in from Canada and I really feel like I should tell her about, well...my sexuality. Only my friends know, but she is so cool...I dunno, I just wanna tell her! She's my broski after all. Any advice in HOW I should tell her? She's pretty accepting. And I'm pretty sure she has some gay friends. I just don't know how to tell her about myself...
I must sound like a broken record, but I'll say it again: You can try to do it subtly. If you're the one to watch TV, you can comment on how lovely the ladies look. Maybe use hot or sexy or cute - something that doesn't scream "I just want to look like her!" and screams "I'd tap that!" ... Okay, maybe not "I'd tap that" - and maybe you DO want to look like her, but you know what I mean, right? This can also work if you go out in public. Otherwise, you can just tell her outright that you're gay, or give her a note or text. Best of luck.