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Who should I come out to first?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by RedFireFly, Aug 4, 2014.

  1. RedFireFly

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    Hi, sorry if it's the wrong category...

    I was thinking I might come out of the closet someday, but I'm not sure who I should come out to.
    I were thinking either my sis or transgender/gay best friend. My sister has always been really supportive to me, and she has told me she would be ok with me being gay. BUT she's a crazy yaoi shipper, and that frightens me alot, considering she already ships me with my crush, and a ton of other guys.
    My best friend are as I said gay, so he would understand. He's also really nice, and I think he would give me advice and stuff. Theres just one problem; We've only been friends for half a year, and we're not in the same class after summer, so I'll barely get to talk to him.
    Or should I start with telling my crush? :confused:

    Sorry for long sentences with many , XD

    Also, who do come to for advice? And who did you first come out to? :icon_wink

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  2. uniqueness

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    It doesn't matter as long as you trust that person.
     
  3. rhapsodic

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    I came out to my closest friends, because I trust them the most, and because I knew they'd still care about me and be accepting of me no matter what. I'd say you should come out to whoever you feel is the easiest to talk to and you feel most comfortable with. It seems like you're closer to your sister, so you should come out to her first. I would also be great to come out to your friend since you could talk to each other about it, ask each other for advice and support each other.

    Good luck and I hope everything goes well for you :slight_smile:
     
  4. RedFireFly

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    Thank you so much! This really helped me! :grin:
     
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    Your best friend is gay? By all means come out to that person first; you should get strong support.
     
  6. RedFireFly

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    Hm... Yeah, I might actually do that.. :/